Google processes optional analytics data under its privacy policy. You can choose “Deny optional cookies” or change your analytics cookie choice at any time with the “Cookie choices” button on a public page.
3. What We Never Do
Sell your data or share your journal entries with analytics providers
Use your private journal or account information for advertising or marketing
Load Google Analytics before your optional analytics choice, or send private writing to it
Share your identity with your partner without mutual consent
4. Data Storage & Security
Data is stored on our server in a secure SQLite database
Passwords are hashed using bcrypt with a cost factor of 12
Sessions use HTTP-only cookies with SameSite protection
All API endpoints are rate-limited to prevent abuse
Security headers are set via Helmet.js (HSTS, X-Frame-Options, etc.)
5. Your Rights
Right to Access
You can download all data we hold about you at any time from Settings → Download my data. This exports a JSON file containing your profile, journal entries, and reveal choices.
Right to Deletion
You can permanently delete your account and all associated data from Settings → Delete my account. This removes your user record, all journal entries, all reveal choices, and your match record. This action is irreversible.
Right to Withdraw Consent
You gave consent when you registered. You can withdraw it at any time by deleting your account.
6. Day 21 Identity Reveal
On Day 21, both you and your partner are asked: "Would you like to know who has been writing to you?"
If both choose to reveal — only the identity level each person selected is shared
Email or contact details are shared only when that person specifically chooses contact-detail reveal
If either chooses to stay anonymous — both identities remain anonymous
There is no pressure, no notification of who said what — just a quiet choice
7. Safety & Crisis Support
If our system detects crisis language in a journal entry, we surface support options. Mentally Prepare is not emergency support, therapy, counselling, or medical care.
Tele MANAS: 14416 or 1800 891 4416
iCall: 9152987821
Vandrevala Foundation: +91 9999 666 555
If you feel unsafe right now, contact local emergency services, a trusted person, or a crisis helpline immediately.
8. Cookies
We use a single session cookie for authentication. It is:
On public pages, your analytics cookie choice is saved in your browser. If you allow analytics, Google Analytics may set first-party analytics cookies for public-page visits and the limited app milestones described above. If you decline, its tag does not load on later visits. We deny Google advertising storage and do not use its analytics data for advertising. An older Clarity choice saved in your browser no longer starts recordings.
An older Meta Pixel choice saved in your browser no longer starts the Pixel. We set that choice to denied and clear its browser cookies when possible.
9. Changes to This Policy
If we make significant changes, we'll update the "Last updated" date at the top. Continued use of the app after changes constitutes acceptance.